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RnR AZ One Week To Go

January 13, 2013 · by Ari ·

FYI: This post has nothing to do with any work outs of training runs I’ve done over the last week. It’s time for me to focus on the mental aspects of the marathon, so here’s a peak into my brain. It’s a hot mess in there, but you get used to it šŸ˜‰

Can anyone ever confidently say ā€œOh, I’m TOTALLY ready to run my first marathon!ā€ I’m pretty sure that feeling doesn’t exist, and I’m 100% certain that with how neurotic I am, I would never utter words anywhere close to that. I will say, however, that I’m not worried about whether I ā€œtrained well enoughā€ or ā€œdid enoughā€. I am as ready as I could possibly get at this point in my life, and regardless of what happens on January 20th, I have so much to be proud of.

On the flight to NYC, I began a post about things I learned while training for a marathon. I planned to finish it when I got in, and have it go up the day of the race. Well, let’s just say that emotional Post Race Cancelation Ari stepped in, and it’s not even in the data base anymore. If I had one regret over my training cycle, it’s that after the New York Marathon was canceled, a little bit of my spark faded. I didn’t really lose motivation or drive, but the awe and appreciation for my body that came with conquering these new distances faded as I became more focused on the idea that this extended training cycle needed to make me faster, and less focused on the heart of the matter—why I signed up for a marathon in the first place.

I haven’t gone into too much detail on here, although I have gently alluded to the fact that when I first started running, I was in a very bad place with food and body image. I was trapped in a negative cycle, and I honestly didn’t see a light at the end, and I could not bring myself to believe I would be able to lead a different kind of life. Then I discovered running, and I rekindled my passion to be better—the reason I began my healthy living journey in the first place. I began to focus my success on my physical accomplishments, and I found what I had been searching for: freedom.

I am not running this marathon to break any records, and despite the fact that I am document every last second of my training on pretty much every facet of social media, I’m not doing this so you will think I’ve done something special. I am running this marathon to celebrate a point in my journey. A journey that began when I was 9 years old and realized my body was ā€œdifferentā€. I originally thought that deciding to tackle a marathon would be the celebration of my weight loss journey, but what I’ve realized is that it is the celebration of something so much bigger.

So no…I’m not ā€œtotally ready to run my first marathonā€, but I am ready to have a once in a lifetime experience with one of my best friends. And I’m even starting to believe that it might actually happen this time. I haven’t asked Steve if they’re going to cancel it in a solid 72 hours which I would definitely consider progress. šŸ˜‰

And because this post obviously isn’t long and wordy enough, here are some things I’ve learned while training for my first marathon:

  • I’m stronger than I think.
  • Dinosaurs are hilarious.
  • It’s not easy to find people that you actually enjoy being alone with for 4 hours every week, so if you find someone who clicks perfectly, enjoy it and appreciate the hell out of them (I DO!).
    "Nicole, why is their Christmas so scary???""Don't worry Ari, I'll protect you! Super Nicole to the rescue!"
    21miles-2
  • I am an individual, and my training plan will probably never fit 100% perfectly into my life, and the challenges that each cycle will bring. All I can do is my best, and it won’t kill me to choose drinking wine with friends once in my life over ā€œfeeling greatā€ on my stupid recovery run. I was definitely better about this the second time, but the first time around, I had absolutely no social life, and I don’t think my husband/family/friends appreciated me kicking them to the curb. It’s not the nicest way to treat the people I love. I swear there is a way to find balance, but it’s different for everyone, and that’s okay.
  • Comparing myself to others never ends well. And it’s stupid, and kind of rude. It’s best to avoid it at all costs.
  • Coach Susan knows the answers to all of life’s questions. Also, I think my people-pleasing personality is hooked on this whole having a coach business. I had no idea what I was missing, but now I don’t want to go back (and let’s be honest….I probably won’t. Coach Susan > Lululemon running skirts).

    Hot Chocolate2

    Although running skirts are pretty awesome…

  • I enjoy running without music. This was the surprise of the century, but I didn’t use my ipod for a single long run the second time around. I do plan on having it on backup for the marathon if I need some extra motivation though.
  • Running should be fun. Last time I checked, this was not my career, and I wasn’t planning to win PF Chang’s. I know, I know, you’re shocked by this revelation. Fun doesn’t mean easy. In my sick and twisted world, ā€œfunā€ means giving everything I have inside me, laughing with Nicole, enjoying the cheers, and celebrating the success of running a marathon no matter what happens. I plan to have so much freaking fun.
"I'VE GOT THIS!!!!!"

This is what fun running looks like.

Alright friends, now is the time—give me pre-race words of wisdom! Tell me your motivational mantras, what you’ve learned (not necessarily from running, but it could be what you learned in math class), and any other gems of positivity you want to share!Ā 

 

**PS: I am putting together a post this week linking up first time marathon recaps, RnR AZ recaps, and any really inspirational running recaps I come across, because I plan on doing a lot of reading to get motivated. If you have a post, email me the link to ari@arismenu.com if you’d like to be included!**

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Comments

  1. Presley @ Run Pretty says

    January 13, 2013 at 8:55 am

    Good luck next week! You will rock it!

  2. Lisa says

    January 13, 2013 at 9:25 am

    As much as I love recreating your recipes, I love your introspective soul-baring posts most of all! I always liked this running quote:

    “You are truly your own hero in running. It is up to you to have the responsibility and self-discipline to get the job done.” – Adam Goucher

    But the motivational quote that’s getting me through my workouts these days is “I don’t quit when I’m tired, I quite when I’m done.”

    I am so ready to come cheer you on. You are magnificent!

    love

    • Lisa says

      January 13, 2013 at 9:33 am

      *quit

  3. Nicole @ The Marvelous Misadventures of a Foodie says

    January 13, 2013 at 10:02 am

    Your post made me tear up a little bit – You know how to get me girl!

    I am so excited to run this thing with you – we are going to have a blast! Maybe even see another dinosaur šŸ˜‰

  4. Elle says

    January 13, 2013 at 10:07 am

    My pre-race mantra… Embrace the Suck!

    Yes, running should be fun and it looks like you are well-prepared.

    Rock on!

  5. MCM Mama says

    January 13, 2013 at 2:07 pm

    Sounds like you are exactly where you need to be. I agree – running should be “fun”. When it’s not fun, find a way to make it fun again.

    Good luck and enjoy your marathon!

  6. Jamie @ couchtoironwoman says

    January 13, 2013 at 2:47 pm

    Can’t wait to hear how it goes! I never run with music, I don’t even bring it as a back up, and I think you can do it šŸ™‚

    Love the photo of you in the I <3 sweat shirt! I have two of those shirts too šŸ™‚

  7. Laurel says

    January 13, 2013 at 3:26 pm

    Kill it. Kill it dead. You are an amazing person. Proud of you my friend!!

  8. Clarinda @ Enjoying the Course says

    January 13, 2013 at 3:38 pm

    GOOD LUCK! Running should be fun, so just go out there and have fun. šŸ™‚ Seriously, don’t worry about it and just ENJOY.

  9. Tali says

    January 13, 2013 at 3:40 pm

    You amaze me! For real. Sorry I can’t be there with you for this one, but you are going to have (probably more than one) someone cheering for you all the way from Oregon. Girls go HUH!

  10. Betty says

    January 13, 2013 at 3:41 pm

    You two will do great!! Be ready to cry when you cross the finish line. It’s awesome!!!

  11. Heidi @BananaBuzzbomb says

    January 13, 2013 at 8:03 pm

    I <3 you. Everything you wrote is exactly me when it comes to all aspects of running. You are going to do amazing! Rock on, sista!

  12. Stacey says

    January 13, 2013 at 9:51 pm

    I am so excited to see you and Nicole cross the finish line! Devin and I will be cheering you on after we finish the half! I’ll *hopefully* be able to chare a first marathon post with you in April šŸ˜‰

  13. Jaime says

    January 15, 2013 at 9:53 am

    You’re going to be amazing, Ari! I can’t wait to see it happen!

  14. Mandie says

    January 17, 2013 at 12:05 pm

    Ari I’m so proud of you! You are going to be AMAZING! I still remember the girl who was afraid to get on the treadmill and now you are running a MARATHON! Truly inspirational. You’re gonna kick some ass!

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